i think basically everyone underestimated Alistair
even the ppl who were ostensibly on his side, like Eamon
a lot of it is his own fault for obfuscating stupidity so much of the time
but he does a lot of growing up that gets missed by ppl
and I think Eamon’s basic problem WRT Alistair isn’t that he’s ~zomg so meen~ to him, it’s that he still sees him as that 10 year old kid that needs somebody to raise and guide him
not understanding how he grew and developed after he left his care, how he matured under Duncan’s mentorship and even further during the Blight through his relationship with the Warden (regardless of its nature)
he’s a goober but he’s not stupid and all he was really lacking was confidence in himself imo
and i really don’t think Eamon is some kind of machiavellian schemer
I think he’s part of the old guard of Fereldan nobility who believes things are done a Certain Way
he’s an Establishment guy
cuz it says something to me that he’s willing to overlook Alistair’s illegitimacy to keep a common born woman off the throne. I don’t think this is intentional maliciousness on his part, he genuinely feels like this is best for Ferelden to have someone of Theirin blood on the throne
which is almost worse in some respects
Establishment guy, ok?
as my headcanon goes, I think he’s more concerned with politics post-Blight than anything
telling Alistair not to rock the boat too hard, since the kingdom is weak and they’ve only just had a civil war and the issue of succession was so fraught with controversy
don’t antagonize too much of the bannorn, don’t thumb your nose at the Chantry, don’t upend hundreds of years of tradition just bc you are young and in love
and he is right to a certain extent in terms of the amount of flailing that happens
but Alistair believes in doing the right thing even if it’s not politically expedient which is why I think he makes such a good leader.
I also have a sneaking suspicion that Eamon was trying to keep his old plan for Celene going only marrying Alistair off to her since his brother was dead
and Gisele threw a monkey wrench into all of that
as an Establishment guy I don’t think he was keen at all on elves with power and agency (which is why he kept the lie about Alistair’s parentage going imo)
Gisele was a useful figurehead in the sense that she was a symbol of heroism to inspire the kingdom, and he tolerated her as far as that went
but when she didn’t go away or quietly stay in Amaranthine there was a problem.
I am in love with this post.
Alistair did do a lot of pretending to be stupid, or incompetent, or unfit for the throne, and I think a lot of that has to do with, 1. him never getting any kind of support or having someone who truly believed in him except for Duncan his entire life, and 2. him just really, really not wanting to sit on the throne, because he felt like it was easier to let someone else handle it. He didn’t think he could be a Grey Warden and a King, and he placed so much emphasis on Cailan and not being as good as him, when in reality, it was another one of those delusions Alistair had to make himself feel better; his brother was a good leader and noble, Eamon treasured and loved him, Maric did what was best for the good of the nation; and it’s all crap, imo. It’s all crap.
At the end of the day, the person who (can) believes in Alistair the most is the Warden. They stand beside him and (can) say, ‘look, Alistair is capable and strong and dedicated and he loves Ferelden and every person that calls it home, and he wasn’t sitting on the sidelines the entire war, he was out there getting shit done.”
He wasn’t wrapped up in political intrigue (of his own choosing)
He wasn’t biding his time to wait for the opportunity to be put on the throne to present itself.
He wasn’t sitting around on his ass. He was out there doing what needed to be done to end the Blight. And, as far as I’m concerned, that’s why Alistair makes the best leader, imho, because he got shit done.
And Eamon’s whole attitude towards a female Warden romancing Alistair, I just can’t deal with that. I understand it from his perspective, but still. I’m thinking of my Amell, and how much she loved him, and then just. Uuuugh.
I would’ve respected Eamon a lot more if he’d put Alistair forward to be on the throne because he actually had faith in him, instead of just him being of Theirin blood.
bless this commentary I want to marry it
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As promised - the 30 Day Warden Challenge for Dragon Age players who want to develop the character they’ve created.
Created a Masterpost for people who want to do this challenge quickly without waiting the 30 days for each post. I will make a post each day however that will provide more detail and help for that question and link it onto here. Link will be a 🌟 next to the question.
This will also be useful if you are searching for a specific question or want to queue answers in case you are busy. I recommend you do this once a day because of the level of detail involved - however it is up to you and there is no right or wrong way to do this challenge.
I hope that makes sense. If you have any questions feel free to ask me. Remember to tag your answers as 30 Day Warden Challenge. I hope you have as much fun answering these questions as I did writing them.
30 Day Warden Challenge
1. Basics. A basic profile of your Warden. [🌟]
2. Appearance. Write a detailed description of your Warden’s appearance. [🌟]
3. Personality. Write a detailed description on your Warden’s personality. [🌟]
4. Companions. Describe your Wardens relationship with each member of their party. [🌟]
5. Romance. Who is your Warden’s romantic interest and why are they attracted to them? Describe their relationship. If your Warden has no romantic interest explain why. [🌟]
6. Sexuality. What is your Warden’s sexual orientation? Describe your Wardens past sexual experiences [if any]. [🌟]
7. Choices [Part One]. Describe your Wardens choices in the five main quests: Arl of Redcliffe, Urn of Sacred Ashes, Broken Circle, A Paragon of Her Kind & Nature of the Beast. [🌟]
8. Choices [Part Two]. Describe your Wardens choices later in the game: The Alienage, the Landsmeet and Morrigan’s ritual. [🌟]
Also Bonus Question - describe your Warden’s decisions during the DLC quests: Warden’s Keep, The Stone Prisoner and Return to Ostagar.
9. Motivation. Describe why your Warden made the choices they made during the Blight. Go into detail about who influenced them and how any key events from their past influenced them.[🌟]
10. Joining The Wardens. How did your Warden react to being recruited? Include your Wardens thoughts about Duncan and whether or not they were conscripted in your answer. [🌟]
11. Spirituality. What does your Warden believe in? Describe your Wardens Religion or their Atheism. Go into detail about how they practice their beliefs, if their beliefs cause conflict among their companions and how their beliefs guide them morally. [🌟]
Bonus Question - If your Warden has any superstitions describe them.
12. Tattoos. Does your Warden have any tattoos and if so how did they get them? If you Warden has no tattoos explain why not. Also include how your Warden views tattoos - Include their reaction to the Dwarven Casteless brands and the Dalish Blood Writing.
[If they are Dalish describe their vallaslin and what their coming to age ceremony was like. If they are Casteless describe their brand, how they feel about it and what it was like being branded].
13. Viewpoint [Part One - Race & Social Class]. Describe how your Warden feels about the Dwarven caste system, Human nobility and Elven alienages. Also go into detail about your own Wardens race/social class and if they are proud/ashamed of where they come from.
14. Viewpoint [Part Two - Mages Rights]. How does your character view Mages? Apostates? Blood Magic? How do they react to Morrigan’s shape shifting? How do they react to Wynne being a abomination? If they are a Mage describe their views of the Circle and if they believe they should be free or not.
15. Leadership. What is your Warden like as a leader? How do they lead and how do they handle companions disagreeing with them?
16. Fear. During the quest Broken Circle your character is trapped in the Fade by a Sloth demon If you could personalize your Warden’s nightmare what would it be about? And why?
17. Regret. During the Urn of Sacred Ashes quest you will be introduced to the Guardian who will ask the Warden if they regret something from their past. If you could personalize the Guardian’s question what would he ask? And how would your Warden answer?
18. Moral Alignment. What would your character moral alignment be and why?
19. Fighting Style. Describe your Warden’s fighting style and how it improves during the Blight. Make sure to include what specializations they trained in and why they chose them.
20. Weapons/Spells. Describe your Warden’s favourite weapon/spells and describe what their favourite weapons/spells say about their personality.
21. Meeting Your Warden. Your Warden has been transported into your bedroom through a magical portal. How do they react to meeting you? Do you get along? What is their opinion of your bedroom? Explain the meeting and go into as much detail as possible.
22. Favourites. Make a list of your Warden’s favourite things [Colour, Food, Music, Animals, etc]. Explain why they are their favourite.
23. Talents & Hobbies. What did your Warden like to do before they were recruited and what do they like to do now when they’re not battling Darkspawn? Also include any talents they may have.
24. Going Out For A Drink. The DA:O writers were asked in a interview how each companion would act if they went out for a drink [To see responses go onto the Dragon Age Wiki – Character’s Page – Trivia]. How would you character react if they went out drinking with their companions and why? What drink would they order?
25. Food Comparison. The DA:O writers were asked in a interview to compare each companion to a type of food based on their personalities. [To see responses go onto the Dragon Age Wiki – Character’s Page – Trivia]. What food would your character be and why?
26. NPCs. Choose four random NPCs in the game – they can be anyone you want – and describe what your warden thinks of them and their relationship.
27. Family. Describe the members in your Warden’s family and what your Warden’s relationship with them is like.
Note: Family doesn’t just have to who you’re related to. If you Warden doesn’t know their family describe their parental figures and who they were close to growing up.
28. Playlist. Write out a list of songs that describe you Warden and their journey to defeat the Blight. You can include songs you think describe your Warden’s relationship with specific companions if you want to. Make sure you explain why you have chosen each song.
29. Backpack. Name 5 items in your Warden’s backpack and explain their significance to your Warden.
30. Happily Ever After…Or Not. How does the Blight end for your Warden? Describe who killed the Archdemon, How they reacted to Morrigan’s offer, If they lived or died and what boon they asked for if they did live.
Bonus question - Go into detail about what your Warden did after the Blight if they lived. If the died explain what their funeral was like. Also include what became of you Warden’s romantic interest [if they have one].](http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mdaoq2lWkc1r0n27mo1_500.jpg)

